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imaginary living

It was just another day in the house on the table.  Quite a move was made that morning, as the entire home was picked up in a giant tornado, and placed gently on the smooth wooden surface.  Abu, in true form, spent his time calming down Barbie, who was still quite a bit shaken up.  In fact, Gretel was so upset, she needed to be held a few minutes by Sophie before she could be placed back in her room.

I remember when I was in elementary school, playing Ninja Turtles all over the playground.  There was a giant tree with roots sticking out of the ground, and that became their “lair”, where all the best plans would be put together.  Then the show would start, and the team of four would kick crime’s butt until the bell rang.  It. Was. Awesome.  When I was young, imagination came not only naturally; it came as a necessity.  But as I grew, as a hundred popular movies will illustrate, my ability to imagine became more and more dim.  Reality ruled.

It would be really easy at this point to go down the familiar road of how sad that is.  How even grown men need to have the imagination of the boys they once were.  How it’s a magical force, and it would include some either dreamy-tripped out experience, or actual blast from the past to reinforce the lesson.

But what if we need our imaginations to be active and strong for larger purposes?

Not that God is going to give us a cosmic set of action figures, and expect us to “play nice”.  But it seems the characteristics of God lead us to a place where our imaginations could be vital to experiencing Him.

The word “imagine” comes from the Latin word “imaginari” meaning “to form a mental picture of something”.  Another definition is “to see or hear something that does not exist” (I would add the word “yet” here also.)  Long ago, God made a covenant with Abraham that has been/is still being fulfilled.  God made a new covenant with all of creation through Jesus Christ, that is continuing until completion.  We cannot see God’s hand physically moving in our world.  We cannot see pictures of “New Creation” the way God will bring to reality.  We are surrounded by a humanity that is broken, and a world that is crumbling without the image of God being carried throughout as it was designed.

In the midst of all of this, we need a bit of “Holy Imagining”.  People who will think, love, act, and speak prophetically as citizens of the Kingdom that is, and is to come.  Transformed hearts and minds that are brought to life by the resurrection of Jesus Christ, the firstborn of a new way of life that is coming.  We need people who will relate to others, and respond within life not according to how things were, how they are, or even an “optimistic view” of what could be.  But rather, who will respond to life according to how God is transforming all things, and will indeed “make all things new” (Revelation 21:5)

So when our kids tug on our shirts, begging us to play with them, let’s jump in with vigor.  As our imaginations shake off their dust, stretch out a bit, and become stronger – perhaps God will continue to give us a vision and a Life sourced not in what is – but what will be…(cue sappy Disney music)

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unwrapping presence.

This past Saturday, my girls and I took a walk to the local park for a picnic lunch.  It was incredible weather, they were in great moods, and we had peanut butter – so why not?  Looking back I noticed something phenomenal about a picture I took, that I wanted to treasure as the years roll on.  Look carefully, and see if you can notice what is unique here:

Give up?  Notice that none of my daughters are holding a cell phone, or an iPod, or an electronic device of any sort.  This is something I’m guilty of myself.  Even when I get to the point where I leave the iPod at home.  Even at the point where I can turn the phone off (or on vibrate).  I still suffer from the illness known as “I-need-to-watch-for-things-I-can-share-with-others.” syndrome.

This is not one of those posts saying “I’ve figured this out, and conquered it, and you should too.”  This is a post confessing my illness from in the midst of it, and saying you might be where I am too.  How many times in the past week have you quickly grabbed your cell phone in order to snap a picture of something incredibly cute that’s happening?  How many times have you had a thought, or heard a quote and said “I need to tweet that right now!!”   With our increasing ability to be connected, and share real-time updates, we forget – we don’t always need to.  Let’s work together against this.  Why?

1. Because we have these moments.  Sure, remembering is important.  Being able to share moments with others are important.  But if I’m sacrificing being 100% present to take in this moment, so that I can snap a cell phone picture or condense my experience into 140 characters or less….is it worth the sacrifice?

2. Because our children are watching.  Our patterns of behavior will become their patterns, multiplied.  You may have already seen it on the news:  When an accident happens, or someone is attacked on a subway, what is the popular response of those nearby?  “I better grab my cell phone and start recording this!!”  It’s almost humorous, to watch footage on major news networks, captured by someone a few rows back on a plane – seeing several other phones in front of them recording the same incident.  We are training our brains, and the brains of our children – that capturing footage/information is more important than being able to fully experience/respond to what is happening in your present environment.

3. Because we can be made new.  As we grow, our brains grow.  They form patterns, and synapses grow stronger or weaker with use.  This continues even as we become adults.  Scriptures tell us over and over again that God wants us to be made into “New Creation”, and talks about us “being transformed by the renewal of our minds”.  This isn’t magically going to happen simply by praying before bed.  We believe there are things God does to transform us, but we also believe God has created us in such a way that we can become transformed as we walk with Him!

So what does this look like? I’ve come up with some goals.  The tricky part will be, when we achieve these goals we’ll want to collect them somehow to be shared later.  That defeats some of what we’re working against in the first place!!

1. Don’t snap it!!  At least once a week/day (depending on your addiction), when something happens and you feel the urge to capture it on camera, and send to your flickr/facebook friends – DON’T.  Keep that phone in your pocket.  Enjoy the moment, soaking it up selfishly.  Allow yourself to be fully present, and respond accordingly.

2. Don’t tweet it!!  At least once a week/day (depending on your addiction), when something happens/is said and you feel the urge to share it with your twitter/facebook friends – DON’T.  Keep that phone in your pocket.  Enjoy the moment, smile at your own witty comment, share it with someone next to you, or call a friend if you absolutely have to.   Allow yourself to be fully present, and respond accordingly.

I don’t want to see any cell phone pictures or tweets about the outcome of your experiences…but if you’d want to share what you can remember after some time has passed…feel free. 🙂

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living reflections…

It’s hockey season again.  That one time every year where I’ll inevitably get asked “So are you guys gonna keep trying for a boy!?”.  As father of 3 girls, and avid hockey fan, it seems like an obvious choice.

Nevertheless, nope.  3 Girls is a great number, and they do a pretty good job of reflecting me on the scale of a toddler.  A couple nights ago, in our small group, we talked about our children picking up things from us.  Sometimes we don’t realize just how much they’re paying attention, until we’re blindsided by seeing ourselves in something they do or say.  It’s inevitably going to happen, because they’re developing and growing daily, and spending time in our presence.  Learning to value what we value.  Learning to say what we say.  Learning to respond to life in the same ways we respond to life.  Learning to spend time doing what they see us doing.

So even though I don’t anticipate having a child to teach how to pee standing up, I do recognize my daughters are constantly seeing how I live my life, and how our family/home is ordered.  They’re learning what to value, and how to communicate that value.

It seems like God recognizes that about us as well, and invites us into His presence.  Jesus was called “Immanuel, which means ‘God with us’. ”  He spends time with us, knowing that without that – it’s hard for us to reflect Him into a world that is thirsty for God’s image.  He knows, because he’s created in a similar way.   He shares with us in John 5:19,

“Jesus gave them this answer: “I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does.”

I want to spend time in God’s presence, believing that even when I can’t see him magically answering all the prayers I bring to Him, merely the act of spending time with Him can influence/transform my ability to reflect His image into creation/my home.  Whew…that’s a long sentence.  Really just a long way of saying, the more time I spend in God’s presence, the more prepared/resourced I am to carry God’s image into creation.  The more I’m able to do that, the greater our ability for our home to be a place our children learn to carry that same image.

Heck…it seems to work well with hockey so far…:)  Game On.