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Winter Retreat

Over 130 senior high students and leaders from many different churches all over Illinois came together at Durley Retreat Center in Greenville, Illinois for our annual retreat, “Frostbite”.  Our speaker, Zach Fleming, reminded us that God has one identity, and it’s found in scripture – not often in humanity’s created versions.  He also challenged students to be more aware of the power their words carry, to wait on God’s timing, and to be filled by an indwelling of God’s Holy Spirit in order to “run as if to win the prize”.  Worship was led by the very talented & humble “Pursuit” from Greenville College.

So here are a few responses from actual teenagers about this past weekend:   This year from Frostbite:

God told me to be patient, our speaker reminded me to come to God for rest, and I will be praying for slavery to end.

God gave me rest, our speaker reminded me to choose my words carefully and to delve deeper into my relationship with God & His Word. I really enjoyed free time to spend with friends I haven’t seen in a while. There weren’t enough cleaning jobs for all the people on the final day. I’ll be praying for God’s will in a more “near-future” way, instead of “___ years from now”.

God helped my priorities, our speaker taught me that what God’s plan is, is the best. I really enjoyed the cabin time, and being able to talk in small groups.

God gave me good reminders for daily life. I enjoyed everything, and I’m praying for patience.

God taught me about change. I learned there are different versions of God out there that aren’t right. I really enjoyed small group because we were able to talk more in-depth about God. I’m praying for change.

God helped me to think about changing. I learned from the speaker that the best things come slowly. I really enjoyed fbite2014fear factor. I’m praying to change how I study.

God showed me I need to be more patient and think before I speak. I really enjoyed the speakers entertaining style of speaking. The food was really good. We should play soccer instead of football. I’m praying to have patience.

God helped me know him better. One of my favorite things was Fear Factor. They should fix the air conditioning in cabin 12 – we can’t sleep. I’m praying for them to fix it.

God helped me through tough times and helped me cope with things. Our speaker taught me how board games relate to life. I really enjoyed meeting new people, and Frostbite got my mind off a lot of things and I had a good time. Fix cabin 12’s air conditioner. I’m praying that the air conditioner works and my house has a heater.

God introduced me to new awesome people. I learned many new things. The food was so dang yummy. Fix Cabin 12’s air thingy. I’m praying for people forced into slavery.

(leader) God gave me a cabin of girls to remind me of young people pursuing him and this encouraged me on the faith journey. I was reminded why we wait on God’s timing, gossip is hurtful to the soul, and Jesus can be trusted. I really enjoyed “scrambling” seating arrangements at lunch Saturday, because it set the pace for the rest of the weekend to get everyone together playing games and chatting. Maybe we should have 1 more seminar, so 3 instead of 2? I’m praying that the teens will continue to hunger after God and I’ll be an example of that in their lives.

God was here. I learned to hold my tongue. The food was good. Don’t do the Fear Factor egg thing. I’m praying for rest.

God was always around. I learned about games and how some aren’t good. One of my favorite things was meeting/catching up with people. The 1st round of Fear Factor should not involve using our lungs. I’m praying for the slaves.

God showed me some new friends. I learned that there are things out there that threaten my Christianity. One of my favorite things was Frostbite Idol, because I finally overcame my fear of performing in front of a large crowd in a competition. Fix cabin 12’s air conditioner! I’m praying for all the children that are being kidnapped and sold into slavery.

God spoke to me by helping me to realize I need to be more careful about gossip. I learned about bad gossipers. I really enjoyed playing with friends. I wouldn’t change anything. I’m praying for everyone.

God decided we shouldn’t sleep because our air conditioner/heater is broken. I determined that God is testing my resistance to the cold – I’m losing. My favorite thing was not the heater, because it was annoying and smelly. It should be fixed. I’m praying for it.

God taught me a lot. About the McDevil and how we are like that, and all the games connecting to our life situation. I’m going to try to change. One of my favorite things was meeting new friends, because it helps me get closer to God. I think Fear Factor should be grosser. I’m praying for people that are going the wrong direction.

God told me to relax, change, and think about my priorities. I learned about food and scrabble. One of my favorite things was skating on the ice because it was fun. I would add “towels” to the packing checklist. I’m praying for those who I do not get along with.

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..and the Father smiled.

She had no idea how much she made my heart skip a beat.

Let me rewind a bit.   It was Friday night, and we’d scheduled to have a “family campout” in the living room that night.  So earlier that day, during my lunch break, I’d gotten our tent rain-fly out.  After tying the edges to some hockeygirlswell-placed chairs, and throwing a lamp and a broomstick in the middle, we had a pretty good tent.  It took up most of the living room.  We were laying there when the phonecall came, “Hey Pastor Wick, this is *********.  I’ve got 5 tickets to a hockey game tomorrow night if you wanna take your family?”  Of course!!!

So there we were, a short drive to Peoria to watch the Rivermen take on the Bloomington Thunder.  Sure, it wasn’t the NHL.  Heck, it wasn’t even the AHL anymore.  It was now part of the “Southern Professional Hockey League”.  But it was a great (and free) way to test out my girls at a live hockey game before investing actual money in the experience.  We arrived a bit early, of course, and the girls let out a collective “whoaaa” as they came up the stairs to look out over the ice.  The players from both teams were warming up, shooting and passing, and skating all around the ice.  I smiled deep.

There were other moments, for sure.  Climbing the stairs to our row, excited to see where we sat.  Asking for popcorn/nachos/drink/etc. (our donors also laid out a few bucks in the envelope to get the girls a treat!!), we settled into the first period.   I sat with our 4 year old on my lap, announcing to her what was happening.  She seemed to kind of understand.  It was a fast-paced, defensive-heavy game.  No scoring yet.  We went all the way to the top of the bowl, where we had room and we all danced the electric-slide together…their smiles were giant and rewarding.  I was glad they were having fun.  Second period started as we got back to our seats, and yet again, defensive plays ruled the day.

After a bit, one daughter needed a potty break.  So mommy took the two, and I slid down to sit by the daughter with the largest bladder.  She was obviously enjoying the game.  I must have missed how much she was zoned in.  Almost without taking her eyes off the puck, she smiled, “Dad, I can’t believe it’s far into the 2nd period, and no one has scored yet!”

I smiled.

This wasn’t my daughter simply agreeing to a statement I’d made.  She wasn’t simply cheering when daddy cheered, or nodding along with me.  This was an indepentent confirmation of a Truth she’d come to realize completely on her own.  Embedded within her statement of enjoyment was an unspoken phrase, “This is good!”

We have such moments with God.  Certainly there are moments while reading God’s Word, or while worshiping in the sanctuary that we raise our face to His and proclaim, “This is good!”  But then there are those unscripted moments.  Those times when the sun is setting over the frozen midwestern plains, and the light hits the clouds just so.  Or when the annoying laughter of children who won’t go to sleep suddenly sounds like sweet music.  Or when the picture of the child you’re in process of adopting reveals a scar on her head…and you realize your heart is moved more than you realize it could be by something so small…

And  in these moments we recognize, in the midst of all the unknowns in life – “This is good.”

And the Father, who declared such an unalterable “good” long ago…smiles.

May we each experience the heart of our Father this week…

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“Frozen” Cooled…

If you’re like me, you’ve had people fillin’ up your Facebook feed with how incredible this new Disney classic, “Frozen” is.  I hope you haven’t gotten enough yet, because I’ve got a few things to add that you may not have thought of.  It seems Disney knew just how many of us needed to hear a great story about the bond between sisters, how triumph can rise through tragedy, and the importance of God’s creatures in the midst of it all.

It doesn’t hurt that the music itself is catchy too.  Especially one of the most popular tunes (Do you wanna build a snowman?), that is just too good to sing without imagining yourself knocking playfully on your sisters door.  The song also helps drive the action of the movie forward, by revealing how these sisters have an opportunity to become even closer.  Not that it was “great” to see their parents die, but we definitely could use more cartoon images of tragedy becoming transformed into something life-bringing.  In this case, a bond between sisters that many families never experience.  It’s obvious with all the redemptive messages, this story has it’s roots deeeeeply planted in Hans Christian Anderson’s “The Snow Queen“.

Even knowing all of this, I was content to “Let It Go” (pun intended) until this past week I was flooded with likes on this particular post, praising the “subversive nature” of the movie.  I was encouraged by his writing, and decided if there was something connecting our lives to the stories and songs of the movie – then it SHOULD be shared in case it connects with you as well!  As my 3 daughters belt out the words from every song off the soundtrack (of course, we’ve got it!), Frozen-movie-posterit’s obvious there are even more messages in the movie than we see at first glance!  Let’s take a moment, and appreciate, one song at a time, how powerful those messages are:

1. Frozen Heart – A song bursting with sexual equality.  Why else put a song about harvesting ice on a soundtrack for a movie so obviously geared towards young girls?  That’s right, daughters, even YOU can grow up to become ice harvesters, UFC champions, and extreme bikers!  As they swing their imaginary ice equipment to the rhythms of the song, I see a future president being formed…

2. Do You Want to Build a Snowman? – Point started above.  Here Disney has achieved an incredibly artistic balance of tragedy and hope, sprinkled with a bit of sisterly mischief and magic.  My daughters smile as they’re reminded – even when mommy and daddy are otherwise occupied, they have someone to play with!!

3. For the First Time in Forever – I smile as I imagine so many Freshmen in college singing this song in jest as they run down the hall in their dorm.  A proclamation of freedom from the things that used to bind us. Whether it’s controlling forces from outside, or our very own fears and hesitations.  Possibly even a message celebrating freedom from the trappings of sin!  Such a great song for our children to sing!

4. Love is An Open Door – I’m tearing up even thinking about these lyrics.  This song is so obviously a statement about how much an impact love can make.  To transform the life of an orphan.  To change the life of a selfish wanderer.  To make someone realize that so much can be made possible, through the doorway of Love.  Notice the title of the song begins with a capital “L”.  That means this song is talking about Jesus.  Boom.  Even more powerful now.   Sing away, kids!!

5. Let it Go – A song celebrating freedom.  We hold ourselves back, and push ourselves down far too often.  Fear of public speaking is number one?  Who doesn’t need to hear the message of this song?  Especially starting at a young age, our children need to know how incredibly precious their contributions are.  Even Jesus said, “Let the children come.”  This song is a great way for children to begin to internalize their worth, no matter how the world might respond.

6. Reindeers are Better Than People – In breakthrough research, Disney has decided that song is the best way to reveal new findings that yes, in fact, reindeers ARE better than people.  It makes sense.  Have YOU ever been lied to by a reindeer?  Ever seen a reindeer running for a political office?  Point made.

7. In Summer – Yes!!  We should all be so hopeful!  The snowman gets extremely excited about spending time in summer…even though he was made for winter.  We all can dream of places or experiences we’d love to have, and yet feel like we were “created for something less”.  Don’t believe it!  God wants nothing short of the Kingdom of Heaven for us…and we cannot buy the lie that we are doomed to live fallen lives, subject to the impact of sin.

8. For the First Time in Forever (reprise) – A sung dialogue where one sister finally understands her sibling, and offers her loving support.  She’s persistent in her love, even to the point of being chased away by a snow monster named Marshmallow.  It’s a great reminder to our children, that showing love to, and being there for family is worth any risk/effort.

9. Fixer Upper – Here Disney battles the famous myth of the “Perfect guy/girl for me”.  For anyone in a long-term committed relationship, we know that Love is required to endure.  It’s the only foundation for a life together.   Even “a little bit of love” is enough to transform a relationship, and help us to see what God sees…..the heart.  Not requiring that person to change so that we can love them…..but loving them in the direction of a Hope-filled future together.

10. Let it Go – (Demi Lovatto version)  Obviously this song was so incredible, they needed a current pop star with the vocal talent to really cement it as a “Song for the Times”.  You’ll look back on Christmas 2013 as the “Year I heard the song.”, thanks to Demi really making it shine.

So there ya’ go.  The actual soundtrack has a 2nd album with songs that didn’t make the cut, and lots of instrumentals.  But I think there’s plenty to gift our kids with right there.  In fact, there was so much packed into these songs, they didn’t want to overwhelm the audience by adding more to the significant and powerful ending moments of the movie.

Ps. If you missed it, this post is primarily a counter-balance for the one from a few days ago…