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Advent: Peace

You know that feeling you get in the midst of a conversation, when someone is talking and it triggers something amazing you really want to contribute to what’s being said?  But one person to the next, the conversation moves forward, and you’re struggling to find a place to insert your audible “foot in the door”.  Finally, as you sense your window of opportunity passing, you take a deep breath, allow yourself to “let go” of the need to say something, and experience a moment of peace.

That’s nothing.

This peace we talk about during Advent, is the peace of the world.  Peace for a creation that is waiting and groaning for what God has in store.  We’ve experienced this peace in our own lives as well.

Peace that came to me as a teenage boy, working late one night at a campground.  Surrounded by the animals I was caring for, smelling the straw and the dung.  I was feeling the frustrations of life, all the angst of being a teenage boy full of unknowns, multiplied by a difficult family background that made me wonder what would become of life.  I was reminded of a baby boy who was God, born into a similar scene, and the promise that boy gave to always be with me.

Peace that came to my wife and I, in the midst of our 3rd child waiting in the womb.  The doctors had found something that caused alarm in a recent ultrasound.  They explained calmly how this could really be nothing at all.  Or it could be something terrible.  We spent time and tears in prayer, offering our worries to God, and asking that He would give us peace.  Ruby continues to be a reminder of God’s ability to bring peace in the unknown moments.

peacePeace that we rely on even now, waiting for concrete news on bringing home our daughter from Africa.  There are horrible living conditions in the DRC, in the midst of peace talks between their soldiers and rebels in the East.  We’re trying to raise funds in the midst of a season where most people we know have already stretched their budgets tight to provide Christmas for their families.  There are others “ahead of us” in waiting for a referral (where we would be matched with our daughter).  But one step at a time, requirements are being met that will lead to us rescuing our daughter.  We are being reminded of the peace He offers even now.

It’s not a peace that declares “Everything will go well from now on.”  After all, it wasn’t long after the arrival of Jesus that Herod ordered the horrible slaughter of babies across the land.  In this we are reminded that peace is so much more than “things going well”, or a quiet starry scene with someone singing “Silent Night” in the background.

Peace, is the presence of God in our midst.  Immanuel.  In our joy.  In our worries.  In our suffering.  We have a peace that passes understanding.  We will have it still tomorrow.  Breathe deep…and be thankful…

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stop by my new place!

Hello old “blogspot” friends!

You may have noticed a bit of silence over here in blogspot land.  That’s because a while back, I moved my writing over to a new website.

I’d love to have you come and join me, if you haven’t already.  Some very exciting things have happened, and are happening even now!

We’re in the process of adopting our daughter from the DRC in Africa, and would love to have you join us in prayer.

So grab a few friends, give the kids a pail of chalk (or a shovel, or an umbrella, or a pillow, depending on the weather & time of day) and join me over at:

www.differentparent.com

You’ll be glad you did.

(I sure will be.)

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desperate advent.

While we wait for Christmas, the world is waiting for something even more needed.  They are waiting for Jesus.  I don’t mean in a whimsical, “waiting for our Savior to return, waiting to go to Heaven someday, waiting for glory” kinda way.  I mean in a “desperate, life is unjust, people are dying and suffering, and evil is everywhere you turn” kinda way.

I remember in the beginning of our adoption process, we looked forward to not only transforming the life of our daughter, but also the impact it would have on our family.  We couldn’t wait to begin that process by bringing her home.  I had no idea how much it would impact us even during this past year of moving in this direction.

You may have seen the Democratic Republic of Congo in the news lately.  The conflict has been happening for years and years.  For the latest information on why there are M23 rebels and what they hope to accomplish, check this out.

That link is to an interview Jason Stearns did with a leader from M23 before they retreated from Goma last week.  Talks between the DRC Government and M23 are to begin Friday this week.  It seems both groups want the same thing – a healthy country.  They want the people to be free.  They want the people to be taken care of, and safe.  They want their country to prosper, and be developed.

In the dust of their marching boots, however, we see a country that continues to be torn to shreds by the very people who beat their chest in its defense.  Go ahead and read that article…and know “FARDC” refers to the DRC Army.  It seems that looting and rape and terror continues to be the way of life – no matter who holds the gun.

Now don’t start freaking out, thinking “You’re going to travel THERE!?”  Check out this post by a family currently living in Kinshasa, where we will most likely go when it’s time.  Most of the above atrocities are happening on the other side of the country.

Yet the hopelessness of the people living there should not be swept away easily.  The thoughts you may have had, concerned for my safety or that of my family – hold that burden for a moment, on behalf of those suffering in the Eastern DRC.  Feel the weight of a people truly and desperately WAITING for Jesus to move in a new way.  Be moved to desperate prayer, on their behalf and on behalf of many more around the world living in conditions like these.

Sure, we’d love if you could give toward the goal of rescuing our daughter from the DRC.  But don’t stop there.  Experience just a sliver of how God’s heart is broken for these people.  Hold the preciousness of their burden in your heart…and when it’s too heavy to bear, bring it to God.  And there, at the foot of God with your hands outstretched in prayer – look over…I’m smiling at you, and thanking you for coming with us…