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Proposal w/Purpose

Over 11 years ago, my band was leading worship at her church on a Sunday evening.  She had invited her friends and family to see her boyfriend sing.  I asked her dad to videotape, so I could see what we sounded like in a large venue.

I asked her to marry me.  Now we’re celebrating our 10th anniversary, and I hope you can help me surprise her again.  We’re trying to bring home our daughter from the DRC in Africa.

We’d love if you could join us.
It’s saving a life, and celebrating marriage at the same time!.

Simply click the “Both Hands” link on the right side of this page.

Whether you can give $5, $10, or $1,000…..every bit helps.  Don’t stop there!

Forward this video to all of your friends/family/enemies!  Post it on Facebook, Twitter, and tell the world!  With YOUR help, we can celebrate our anniversary by bringing home our daughter.

Thanks for your help!!

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Christmas & other idols…

Luke 21:8 “And he said, “Beware that you are not led astray; for many will come in my name and say, ‘I am he! and, ‘The time is near!’ Do not go after them.”

We’ve probably heard these words before, but I believe we usually limit their impact on our lives.  We zoom in on the literal translation, and miss out on what Jesus is actually offering us here.  He was speaking to 1st Century Jews about the coming destruction of the temple, etc.  But His words also carry much into our lives as well.

“..many will come in my name…”  We’ve lost some of what Jesus is saying here, simply because we usually reduce “name” to that which a person is called by or responds to.  The word here (onoma) means so much more than simply someone coming and saying the name “Jesus”.  As I’ve posted before to help understand similar texts in the New Testament, we can think of the word “name” in the same sense as “nature”.  Think about the nature of Jesus.  His nature is to bring healing, restoration, forgiveness, right-ness, and to reveal Truth.  To be something we can put our eternal Hope in.  Jesus is saying here, “many will come saying this is also their nature”.  We see this on a daily basis, in advertising and other areas.  Products, people, powers, situations and systems, and “get rich quick” ideas that all offer/promise to be something it makes sense to put our hope or fear in, and receive life from/be anxious over..

May we not be led “off the path” by these things.

Then he ads an extra blow. “..and say, ‘I am he!’ ”  Most of our translations say “I am he!”  But the actual word here (eimi) does not actually include “he”.  It was added to reinforce the “come in my name” statement.  The word here is the same used in  1 Corinthians 1:28, “God chose what is low and despised in the world, things that are not, to reduce to nothing things that are (eimi).”

The literal translation of these words, then, is “come in my name and say, ‘I am‘..”, which says much more that our first glance.  It’s not just warning us against people who come and say “I’m Jesus”, or “I’m with Jesus”.  It’s warning us against everything that comes and pretends to BE something to worry/concern/live for/give priority and place in our life.

The Christmas season is here again.  We can fly right into the deals, ads, and shopping for gifts, because the Christmas shopping Christmas tree with presents and fireplace with stockingsseason proclaims “I AM”.  (sidenote: here’s a great take on the “War on Christmas”)  Many of us will spend time with family and friends, and there may be relationship issues and brokenness in our midst that needs forgiveness and healing.  We need freedom from these things in our life that are shouting “I AM!!”.  Jesus offers us that freedom…and community with others who are living as people made free.

In your life this week, what is shouting “I AM!!”?  Jesus offers freedom even now.  May God free us, and may we continue to live as those who celebrated their Thankfulness just a couple of weeks ago…

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Advent: Peace

You know that feeling you get in the midst of a conversation, when someone is talking and it triggers something amazing you really want to contribute to what’s being said?  But one person to the next, the conversation moves forward, and you’re struggling to find a place to insert your audible “foot in the door”.  Finally, as you sense your window of opportunity passing, you take a deep breath, allow yourself to “let go” of the need to say something, and experience a moment of peace.

That’s nothing.

This peace we talk about during Advent, is the peace of the world.  Peace for a creation that is waiting and groaning for what God has in store.  We’ve experienced this peace in our own lives as well.

Peace that came to me as a teenage boy, working late one night at a campground.  Surrounded by the animals I was caring for, smelling the straw and the dung.  I was feeling the frustrations of life, all the angst of being a teenage boy full of unknowns, multiplied by a difficult family background that made me wonder what would become of life.  I was reminded of a baby boy who was God, born into a similar scene, and the promise that boy gave to always be with me.

Peace that came to my wife and I, in the midst of our 3rd child waiting in the womb.  The doctors had found something that caused alarm in a recent ultrasound.  They explained calmly how this could really be nothing at all.  Or it could be something terrible.  We spent time and tears in prayer, offering our worries to God, and asking that He would give us peace.  Ruby continues to be a reminder of God’s ability to bring peace in the unknown moments.

peacePeace that we rely on even now, waiting for concrete news on bringing home our daughter from Africa.  There are horrible living conditions in the DRC, in the midst of peace talks between their soldiers and rebels in the East.  We’re trying to raise funds in the midst of a season where most people we know have already stretched their budgets tight to provide Christmas for their families.  There are others “ahead of us” in waiting for a referral (where we would be matched with our daughter).  But one step at a time, requirements are being met that will lead to us rescuing our daughter.  We are being reminded of the peace He offers even now.

It’s not a peace that declares “Everything will go well from now on.”  After all, it wasn’t long after the arrival of Jesus that Herod ordered the horrible slaughter of babies across the land.  In this we are reminded that peace is so much more than “things going well”, or a quiet starry scene with someone singing “Silent Night” in the background.

Peace, is the presence of God in our midst.  Immanuel.  In our joy.  In our worries.  In our suffering.  We have a peace that passes understanding.  We will have it still tomorrow.  Breathe deep…and be thankful…