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not optimistic. :)

Tragedy.  Suffering.  Pain.  Humanity taking the lives of others in their hand, and purposefully causing injury and death.  So many events just from the past week or so seem to be screaming out, “Where is Jesus as Lord?”  This is the world my daughters are growing up into.  The world in which my ability to keep them safe is drastically reduced every day they grow.

I’m a huge Detroit Redwings fan, and my entire hockey-watching life I’ve watched them head into the playoffs during this next week or so.  But this season has been a rough one.  Recently their head coach, Mike Babcock was interviewed.  They asked him if he was optimistic about his teams’ chance to make it into the playoffs.  His response: “I don’t know if it’s optimistic; I think it’s realistic,”

I wish I shared his realism.  But I’ll definitely be optimistic, even as I begin growing my playoff beard. (Just in case we need it early.)

But his vantage point reminds me of God’s view, as he looks out over our world that is so filled with uncertainty and suffering.  In Matthew chapter 13, Jesus tells a parable that offers us insight into the situation our world is in today:

“The Kingdom of Heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared. “The owner’s servants came to him and said, ‘Sir, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Where then did the weeds come from?’ “‘An enemy did this,’ he replied. “The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and pull them up?’ “‘No,’ he answered, ‘because while you are pulling the weeds, you may uproot the wheat with them.” 13:24-29

For an explanation of the parable, skip to verse 36.  But it seems that even when God looks out on our world that has so many spillwayweeds growing, He sees more than these.  He sees the beauty of what is growing through the children of the Kingdom.  Growth that, between telling the parable and explaining it, Jesus connects to a small amount of yeast working its way through the entire dough.  Or a small mustard seed growing into a large, strong tree that provides shelter.

It’s important for us to remember as we look out on our world this week.  As we look for ways to honestly look into our childrens’ eyes and say “Yes, even in the midst of all of these weeds growing, Jesus is Lord.”  Help your children to identify the places where Kingdom is growing.  Find ways for the Kingdom to arrive in and through your family.  Wonder what that can look like, practically?  Check out the Fruit of the Spirit from Galatians 5:22-23.  Spend a day focusing on each one with your children, and as you participate in Kingdom growing – know that as Jesus delays coming to complete what He began by becoming Lord – it’s not because He’s optimistic – He’s realistic.  There is so much in our world that’s worth giving the chance to continue growing…

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leading our children beyond “harlem shake christianity”

Here’s hoping that not long from now, people may stumble upon the words of this post’s title and ask themselves, “What is he even talking about?”  A world with less of the youtube madness that started back in February this year, would be a healthier one.  But I couldn’t let the moment come and go, without asking how such a thing could help us in our awareness of God.

The current  “harlem shake” movement seems accidentally based on a very simplistic idea: 1. make it easy to do, 2. about getting positive attention, and 3. make it look fun, and you’ll get a lot of other people wanting to do the same thing.  The guys responsible for “starting” the movement, “Filthy Frank” and his friends never intended for millions of people to get caught up in it becoming a “thing”…and by February 12th was even saying he was ready for it to move on.  They’d simply made a silly video, and 10 days later it was being copied by people all around the world.rokerharlem

I remember being in East Harlem back around 2001, and having kids try to teach me how to “Harlem Shake“.  I’m definitely not qualified for such a thing…but it was fun nevertheless.  I can’t imagine they’re excited about this phony movement making people think they know how to “Harlem Shake” simply by thrashing around in costumes/loud music.

But I’m not really worried about the people of Harlem getting all upset that the youtube fixation (that’s hopefully dead by the time you read this) has usurped their role as shakers.  What I’m more concerned about, is the same elements that sky-rocketed this little video/performance by Filthy Frank, are what we often depend on to sell the gospel message:

1. Make it easy to do/simple.  We hear phrases all the time:  “Invite Jesus into your heart, and you’re done!”,  “It’s as simple as that!”, “now you’re ready for Heaven!” or boil down an entire Word of God into a distilled phrase of truth that you can fit into your pocket, a prayer that you memorize, and a box you check at the altar.  But any Christian parent would agree: we don’t want our children to remember the moment they “checked a box”, we want them to remember how Jesus has transformed their lives.  That’s not easy, and takes much longer than a single moment with a #2 pencil.  So we make our homes places where we are daily opening the Word of God.  We wrap our lives around the Truths of His Word, and living as families of Kingdom citizens here and now.  We confess to each other when we’re struggling, and depend on God’s Spirit to be our helper – because we NEED one.

2. Make it about getting positive attention/feedback.  In a world of Hallmark endings and prosperity gospels, it doesn’t take long to find followers of Jesus who will tell you – if you’re following Jesus right, everything will work out for you.  You’ll be blessed, your family will all be healthy and in love with Jesus, and whenever you have a need – it’ll be awesome to see how God will always come through to fill it.  We love these promises, but the hard truth is – if we’re following Jesus for these reasons, the object of our worship is actually “Self”.  As parents, we need to share not only the highs of following Jesus together as a family, but the struggles as well.   To be appropriately honest with them, and have faith that even though it may NOT look like it in our world/lifetime, we know that Jesus IS still Lord.  We look up from our tears with them, and together gaze into the future promises of God to complete what He began in Christ, and make all things New.

3. Make it look fun.  In the “actual” Harlem Shake, there’s a set way of doing things.  5 people standing side by side, all doing the dance will look very similar.  In the current “movement”, the only requirement seems to be chaos.  But everyone’s got a giant smile slapped on their goofy looking faces, even if it’s covered by a mask.  The goal is not to accomplish anything, or even look a certain way…the goal is simply to have fun, and get hits on youtube.  Unfortunately, it’s also a theme picked up by genuine-hearted followers of Jesus as they try to get the next generations connected to what God is doing.  I’m not against VBS craziness, or playing silly youth group games at times.  But what I am against, is when the “fun” becomes central, and “knowing/following Jesus” becomes a side-issue.  To pull a giant “bait & switch” with our kids/teens will end up with young adults who wonder why youth group stopped after 12th grade, and decide to leave a church that doesn’t “offer anything for me”.  We want to raise our children with an appreciation for an abundant life, deeply rich and satisfying in relationship with Jesus, others, and creation; and contributing to His “making all things New”.  Not simply to be an “a-mused” (not-think), and consuming force.

It may not win any awards for trending…but it will transform lives and the cosmos…:)

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five minute friday: jump

Here we go again with another “Five Minute Friday” post!  To learn more about “Five Minute Friday” (FMF), check out the linked image here.  Basically, each week there’s a word given for you to write about.  You start writing, no back-tracking, editing, etc.  At the end of 5 minutes, you stop.  Then you post it, and share in the community of words that were birthed during these 24-ish hours.  It’s cool stuff.
So here’s this week’s response to the word: “jump”.

“daa-aaaaadd!!  Watch!”  She yells to me for the  5th time that morning.  She’s discovered how to jump.  She’s already proven she can clear the distance of her favorite book.  Well, as long as she can separate her feet.  But here she is, teetering dangerously high on the edge of our first step.  I can barely handle the tension as her toes are clearly almost a foot off the floor.

There’s no way.   She’s not going to make this.

Keeping both feet together in an act of defiance so bold is makes me gasp without trying, she launches herself several inches forward off of that pinnacle.  It’s only a moment before she reaches the ground, first with her feet, and next with her knees and hands.  She rolls forward and to the side a bit.  I see her giant smile before she even jumps up to announce to me what I’ve just witnessed was exactly what she intended.  Arms raised somehow higher than her smile, she yells “Ta-da!!”  And I applaud, genuinely applaud – more excited than I was to see David Copperfield back in Vegas several years ago.

Someday her jumps will get bigger.  Off of fences.  Off the diving board.  Off an overhanging branch into a river.  Off the edge of selfishness, and into love for others.  Off of pursuing the American dream, and into God’s Kingdom work.  Off of comfort, and into a risky new adventure we’re both unsure of.  She’ll look at mom and dad with a smile on her face, and we’ll jump into a standing ovation….so very proud of our little girl…

done.

I hope I get to applaud tomorrow….:)